Best money bets for college students

A question I get asked often is for advice for college students. One of my Twitter followers, @BeForREAAL, brought the topic up last week:

My thoughts on that question never waiver: the best financial decision college students can make is to avoid graduating with unnecessary debt. The two most important ways to do so is avoid over-borrowing for school (i.e., borrowing for more than tuition, fees and books instead of working to pay for incidentals), and using credit cards for non-essential purchases. The average college student in the 2008-2009 school year had borrowed more than $23,000. That's a lot to have to pay back -- with interest -- in a tough economy where it's hard to find a job.

I opened the question up for my timeline and got some other answers:

Pretty sound, common sense advice. What else would you suggest?

Saving for retirement vs. your child's college education

A question from formspring: 

What is more important-saving for my retirement or saving for the kid's college education?

A: That all depends on your financial situation but if you're like most people the answer is your retirement.

The reason is simple: your child can borrow for education but you can't for retirement. And depending on your age, the years between new and your children's college graduation could be critical for you in terms of building a nest egg and adding to it with the appreciation you earn on your retirement investments. For example, if you weren't investing in stocks or mutual funds at all from late last year through the first quarter of 2010, you likely missed out on huge gains that could have offset any losses you took in the 2008 market crash.

Every parent wants to see their child do well but you have to remember that life will go on after your child has finished school and started a career. Not having retirement savings could not only harm you, but harm the start you're trying to give your children in life -- imagine how hard it would be for them trying to take care of you in your later years absent the retirement savings you could have socked away?

How moms can help their kids be better with money

Q: I am a mother and my daughters think money grows on trees. As a father with two sons are you currently teaching them the value of dollar? and how are you teaching them?

A: I'm constantly teaching my sons lessons about the value of a dollar, mainly by forcing them to work at wages that would violate child labor standards in Taiwan.

Seriously though, my philosophy on money is that as with other habits, children emulated what they've been taught. If they're not taught, they emulate whatever they see. So if your daughters think money grows on trees, it may be time to re-evaluate what you're teaching them about the value of money.

Are you prone to shopping sprees? Do they get an allowance? If they run out of their own money, do you still buy them the things they want or do you make them save? Teaching kids delayed gratification is hugely important.

I use every opportunity to teach my boys about the value of money, hard work and the difference between income and wealth. As a parent you can use ANYTHING to instill those values. For example: My sons are both Monopoly and chess freaks because I decided early on to teach them Monopoly to learn cash flow management, negotiation and real estate investing and chess to teach them to think ahead and strategize. My 13 year old could play circles around most adults in those games, and his business acumen is pretty high. He gets it.

There's other lessons: money they get for birthdays or holidays must be put in the bank. 15 percent of the oldest's allowance also gets stashed. If there's things they want, they have to earn it through their schoolwork or extra chores, or save for it out of their allowance.

Christmas gifts this year included shares of stock in the companies where they spend the most money: GameStop, the video game store for my oldest, and Heelys, which makes roller-sneakers, for my 10-year-old. I did the same for all my kid cousins and they were so enthralled by the possibility of making money from the stock that they made me sit down and teach them the basics of the market. If you want to do the same, you can check out OneShare.

My boys also have brokerage accounts for their college savings and I have them look at what's in them and how they're performing when I log in.

Your children's money habits start with you. They'll emulate what you do with your money and they have no choice but to follow your rules regarding their own. Take the lead as a parent and they'll follow.

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Advice for soon-to-be college grads

If you're a college senior and you watched the video, you're probably not encouraged. When I graduated a decade ago, jobs were plentiful and although the dot-com boom was about to go bust, unemployment never reached anywhere near 10 percent during the 2001 recession.

Students, are you concerned about leaving campus for the last time with the economy and job prospects still in the toilet? At least one reader has two questions that showed she's worried about exactly that:

What's the best way to invest money if you're a student w/ no real job but have leftover money once expenses are taken care of? If you were a student and you got an absurd refund, would you save it all or pay down an undergrad loan?

Both are good questions. After doing a little interviewing I found out that the questioner has about $600 in savings and as of now, no solid job lined up after graduation. If she doesn't find one, she plans on living with her parents while looking for work.

With that little in savings and facing graduation in a tough economy, I'd be adding any extra cash to my savings. I'm not sure how much it costs you to live a month under your parents' roof, but $600 isn't likely to last beyond a month or two. You'll need more cash than you have to weather the storm until you find a job. You can worry about stocks, bonds and mutual funds when you have a job and a serious income.

As for the refund, use the money to pay down the student loan. Remember that the refund is only a check for the difference between what you borrowed for school and the cost of a semester's tuition. It's not free money and ultimately you'll have to pay it back with interest. Better to do that now while your loans are in deferment than in a few months when you'll be paying interest on it -- perhaps without a job.